The A-Z of Life

Today’s blog post is a little different. There are so many lists out there from A-Z covering so many different topics so I thought why not make an A-Z list of life. Sometimes you just need some guidance to put you on the right path so here you go! Hope you enjoy it!

Always know that everything is going to be okay: Sometimes everything might be going wrong and you feel like the universe it’s against you, stop and think again. Things are not as bad as they seem to be. No, the universe is not working against you. Everything will be all right in the end. Healing takes time so remember you will be alright!

Be what you want to, not what you are obligated to be: We all get a choice in our life of what we want to be or what we want to do. Don’t ever change your dreams for someone. Don’t just be something because someone told you to. It’s your choice, your life and you have the right to do whatever you want to, whenever you want to.

Change is good: Sometimes letting go of who you were to become who you are is necessary. Changing it up is a nice thing to do. Sometimes you just need to let go of what was making you sad to allow your happiness to come in.

Don’t waste your life complaining and being sad: Life is too short to be sad, if you don’t start appreciating life for what it is you will never make the most of it. Sometimes it’s to be happy, it's better for your growth, your mind, and your health overall so stop being sad about the one thing that went wrong and start being happy about the hundred things that went right.

Everything happens for a reason: Nothing in this universe is a coincidence. If it happens it is meant to be- either you have to teach it a lesson or it has to teach you a lesson. It is always meant to happen so you don’t end up in a place by accident, the universe brought it to you. Obstacles make you stronger.

Fill your life with people you love: These are the people who want what’s best for you. They want you to grow and be happy and become the best version of yourself that you can be. Don’t chase people who don’t want what’s best for you, I am sure there is plenty of people out there

Go for it: Why hideaway when you got something to show the world. If there is an opportunity waiting for you don’t shy away go for it. Life is too short to waste living behind the shadows, go for it when you have the chance. You never know where you will end up

Healing takes time: It takes time for you to accept why you broke, what happened and how you will recover. Take your time, you deserve it. Even though the hurt might not be your fault, healing is your responsibility. This is for your own good

It’s the little things: Sometimes it’s the little things in life that bring you immeasurable happiness. Something like making your bed or maybe talking to your friend. Stop waiting for something big to happen, look around you and see all the little things you forgot to be grateful for today

Just keep swimming: I know it sounds so cliché but it's cliché for a reason, there’s truth behind it. Just keep going no matter how bad things get don’t stop, keep going. I’m sure you will make it

Keep believing in yourself: It’s all about your self-confidence. If you think you won’t be able to do something, you have convinced yourself that you won’t be able to do it. Never doubt yourself, you are capable of so much more!

Let love be your strength: Sometimes love is something that destroys you and leaves you broken from the inside. Don’t let that be the case, let the love for your family, your sibling, yourself, your significant other be something that keeps you going every day

Maybe some things are not meant to be: Not everything in this universe can go your way. Sometimes no matter how hard you try you can’t make things work. You have to accept the fact that this is okay, not everyone who comes into your life is meant to stay or not all the things are meant to be.

Not everything is what it seems: There are some things that seem so perfect, sometimes too good to be true and most of the time that is the case. Sometimes peoples life looks perfect, don’t let that affect you. You don’t know what’s going on behind closed doors. Don’t be so quick to judge. Remember to have all the facts before saying something

One person to always keep in your life- yourself: Never try so hard that you lose yourself. Always stay true to yourself. You have all the right to look out for yourself and accept opportunities that are for your gain. You come first

Peer pressure is wrong- you are better than that: Never give in to peer pressure. It might take a lot of restraint but sometimes not doing what your friends are doing is best for you. You have your own mind and the right to do whatever you want to

Queens don’t necessarily wear crowns: Sometimes being the bigger person is not easy. It could be giving up an argument even though you know your right maybe accepting defeat in a fight in order to restore your friendship. be a nice person but you don’t have to show the entire world that you are one

Reinvent yourself once in a while: Change it up here and there. If you remain the same person your whole life how will you grow? How will you discover things about yourself that you didn’t know? So mix it up here and there, it’s never a bad thing to do

Self-love is the most important form of love: If you don’t love yourself how will anyone else love you? Or how will you love anyone else? If you can’t accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you? Self-love> all other forms of love. You are enough, remember that

True friends will stay with you forever: There is no loophole to these words. If they leave the first chance they get, they weren’t real. Friends are supposed to love you no matter what and always be happy for your successes and if they don’t, don’t waste your time on them. I’m sure there are plenty of people out there who would love to be your friend

Ugly or pretty-look don’t really matter: It's cliché but it's true. It doesn’t really matter how you look because if you are not a good person, no one would want to be friends with you. The way you treat people is so much more important than how you look. Everyone is beautiful in their own unique way and that’s okay

Validate your feelings: This is perhaps the most important letter out of all. You have to be in check with your feelings. You cannot ignore what your feeling. What good is it going to do to you? Why do you want to bottle up your emotions? Have weekly check-ins with yourself

Why let one bad thing break you when there are 1000 other things to build you up: Just because one thing goes wrong, it is not the end of the world. There are so many other things that have gone right but you’re not focusing on them. Focusing your energy on the right thing is so important.

X-factor, never stop striving for it: We have all got that one thing that makes us… us. We all have something that someone else doesn’t, but that’s what makes us different from one another. Imagine if we were the same person, how boring would that be?

You get one life: one thing to keep in mind is that you will never get today again. Also, something to brood over- talk to someone in such a way that if that was the last time you talked to them, you are satisfied with the conversation. You have one life and one life only

Zest and zealousness- keep it in you forever: Imagine having no energy, what’s the fun in life. always have energy, you never know when a challenge or opportunity will come up. When your older and look back at your younger days, you’ll regret not using that energy you kept within yourself.

I hope you guys enjoyed this blog. I know it’s a little different but I hope to do some blogs like this in the future.

(Question of the day: What time is it when you’re reading this blog post?)

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