Quotes pt.4

I’m back with another part. I really enjoy writing these kinds of blogs. I hope you enjoy

1. “How do you know when it’s over? Maybe when you feel more in love with the memories than with the person standing in front of you.”

- Sometimes you are in love with the idea of something rather than the thing itself, that is when you know it’s over

- Being in love with an intangible thing is the sign you need to let go of something tangible

2. “So many people love you, don’t focus on the people who don’t.”

- Why get upset about people who don’t love you when you are surrounded by only people who love you. Don’t focus on what you don’t have, express your gratitude for the things you do

- One of these days, write to the people who love you expressing how grateful you are for them

3. “Dead people receive more flowers than the living ones because guilt is stronger than gratitude.”

- This is my favourite quote yet. I think it is pretty self-explanatory

4. “Remember that no amount of guilt can change the past and no amount of anxiety can change the future.”

- This is so true because no matter what you try to do, you will end up where you are meant to be and nowhere else

- Wherever your destiny takes you is where you will end up. God will always put you on the right path

5. “Consider how hard it is to change yourself and you’ll understand what little chance you have in trying to change others.”

- Change is a hard thing, you need to have a lot of urge and a lot of self-belief. Changing yourself is a whole task as it is

- Trying to change other people is wrong. If they don’t like you for you then maybe they were not the right people, to begin with

6. “You are either as beautiful or as ugly as you believe you are. You define your beauty. That’s not a power anyone can have over you.”

- Remember that forever. Nobody should have the power over you to tell you how you look, you decide that for yourself and no one else

- The day you give someone else the power is the day you lose and they win

7. “We outgrow people when we outgrow a version of ourselves.”

- Every time you upgrade to a better version of yourself, you leave behind people who were never good enough for you

- There’s a reason why some people are not in your life today, they were never your well-wishers

8. “Stop carrying old feelings into new experiences.”

- If you carry the same feelings into a whole new experience, you can never really call it a new experience

- As Sharpay says, “It’s out with the old and in with the new.”

9. “Be somebody who makes everybody feel like somebody.”

- Never be the one who degrades someone, be the one who everyone goes to because they know that you can’t hurt them

- Then again, don’t forget your somebody too

10.“People are afraid of change because they focus on what they have to lose instead of what they have to gain.”

- Sometimes you think that the things you let go of are much greater than what you have to gain which is not true at all

- Change is about you growing into the best version of yourselves and in order for that you have to let some things go

11.“Life is simple, get out of your head and get into the moment.”

- It cannot get simpler than that

- Maybe you just have to stop recording the moment and start living in the moment

12.“When you feel like giving up, remember why you started.”

- Remember the motivation that kept you going and the whole reason you started it in the first place

- Remember the reason why you kept going, there’s no point in giving up now

13. “We were all born beautiful the greatest tragedy is being convinced we are not.”

- Beauty is a very weird concept, we base most of societies expectations on it

- In the end only, you can decide how beautiful you are, that is the greatest power you possess

14.“Worrying doesn’t take away tomorrow's troubles, it takes away today's peace.”

- Stop worrying about the future, what is going to happen will happen. You cannot control everything

- If it’s out of your hands, it deserves peace from your mind too

15.“The biggest problem is we do not listen to understand, we listen to reply.”

- This is so true, sometimes instead of getting ready and forming the reply in our head, we can try to understand people

- Make them feel loved and never forget this quote

16.“Maybe true happiness is when we are happy with ourselves.”

- Do not give other people the power to decide how happy or sad you are

- In the end, it doesn’t matter how happy someone else is for you, it matters if you are happy for yourself

17.“It’s important you realize that no matter how good you are to people, it doesn’t make them good to you.”

- Just because you're giving all your love, it does not mean that people will reciprocate your love

- Sometimes people don’t love you the way you love them

18.“I am more than what people tell me I am, I am not limited of their versions of me, to know this is power.”

- Whatever people think of you is not your problem

- It matters what you think of yourself because, in the end, your image is your own responsibility

19.“Even if you hear a bad story about me, understand there was a time I was good to people, but they won’t tell you that.”

- We all have our good and bad days; the only difference is that people choose to portray you on your bad days

- There will always be some people who want to degrade you but it’s fine, you are your own responsibility

20.“Stop comparing yourself. Flowers are pretty but so are sunsets but they look nothing alike.”

- I don’t think there is much I can explain in this

I hope you enjoyed this blog, hopefully, I will make more parts!

Thanks for reading,

Xx Mahika

(Question of the day: What was the last book you read?)

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