Letting Go

Letting go can be anything. Letting go of a place, person, or thing. Letting go is hard. It takes a lot of time. Letting go demands a lot from you. Letting go means surrendering the memories you made with the thing, person, or place. It's hard but not impossible.

According to me letting go of all the memories you made, all the good times you had together, and all the fun stuff you both did. Imagine taking that and pretending like it did not even happen that is letting go. Once you let go of a person it is very hard to let go of the memories you made with them. Think about it, it is better for you. It’s like lifting a weight off your shoulders. Especially friendships, those are the absolute worst. Letting go is hard but holding on to something that wasn’t even there is worse. Don’t keep a friendship because you feel obligated to or because you feel like you don’t have the right to break it off but most importantly do not keep a friendship just because you are too scared to let go of it.

Here are some tips to let go of a friendship

-Talk to your friend and tell her why you think you should end the friendship

-Tell her why you are angry at her, there is no point of staying mad at her if she doesn't know why

-Slowly try to cut her out of your life, don’t do it abruptly otherwise things will get messy

-Try not to tell everyone, just tell your trusted ones

-Lastly, don’t hold a grudge just wish the best for her and go on with your life

Letting go is hard but when you have the right people to help you, it is so much easier. Remember don’t ever keep your emotions bottled up if you are going through something talk to someone, you yourself feel better. (you can always send your questions or if you need advice use the contact form on the website, it will be answered on socialise Sundays)

Remember let it hurt and then let it go. Letting go is always better than holding on. Remember you are worthy of other friendships. It's okay to cut off long term friendships. You know how you outgrow clothes, like that sometimes we outgrow friendships and that is okay. Remember never be afraid to let go of a friendship that causes you pain.

Thanks for reading

Xx Mahika

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Disclaimer - As always this is my personal opinion. Please do not treat it as professional medical advice. This information is for general purposes only. If you have any particular concerns, please speak to an adult.