Friendship Breakups

The worst type of breakups… friendship breakups. It is really hard, it is kind of like letting go of your favorite person who knows you better than yourself, someone whose been with you through thick and thin.

In the beginning, you will probably feel like the entire thing was your fault, you will probably the need to apologize, to make everything right again but remember that becomes a toxic friendship. I am not saying no friendship can be saved, some of them can but think about it, if your friend truly loved you, they would never put you in a position to lose you. Truth is everyone is going to hurt you but you just have to find the ones worth suffering for. Trust me, if you tell your friend that you think you both should not be friends anymore she would try to save the friendship, and if she doesn't then did you really have a friendship in the first place? In this situation letting go is the best thing to do. If she is the one who ends your friendship then she just lost the best thing for herself. If it was mutual, maybe it was not meant to be, maybe in another place at another time but not now.

On the flip side, some friendships are worth saving. Let me tell you a story. I knew a girl and she had this friend and when they were young all they could do was fight. They even tried working out their problems but they could not. They gave up on each other. Then one day they saw each other again and they just clicked and realized their friendship was worth saving and now guess what after all those fights, breaking the friendship they reached here, now they are the best of friends. So I am not saying you have to let go of every friendship. Like I said earlier, in another place and at another time just like they did. Friendships play a big role in your life. they, in a way, help shape who you are. They are the ones who get you through life. Just have the right people in your life.

Let's talk about how to get over a friendship breakup. Let me tell you one thing, it is not easy. What you can do is. Talk to someone about it just tell them what went wrong, you will feel so much better. Try forgetting that person, they were never good to you, why waste time worrying about things you cannot control when you can focus on the things you can control. In the end, all friendships will not last forever, you need to come to terms with that. Take your time, go slow, just do not blame the whole thing on yourself. Things will get better. Some things you can try are, focus on the friendships you have right now. Are they healthy, are you guys doing okay? Remember to watch out for the signs of a toxic friendship. There will be people in your life who will use you. Your young, innocent heart just needs to stay strong. Time heals everything.

Thanks for reading,

Xx Mahika