Finding Yourself

I have a question for you- Who are you? What is your purpose in this world? Are you someone who lives by the rules? Or are you a reckless spirit? Are you someone who wants to be famous or someone who just wants to adventure throughout the world? There are so many different things you can be. Go on an adventure to find yourself but one thing to remember is you are not defined by a personality test! You don't need some test to tell you who you are, you have your life for that.

I read somewhere, someone asked a question, ‘What defines you?’ the answer they received was, ‘Nothing, a definition excludes a possibility of change.’ This was the best thing I ever read. Change is something we need to keep on bringing into our life. Some people think change is bad but what if we embraced it. Change is such an important thing in your life. Our mentality in life should be instead of accepting the things we cannot change, we should change the things we cannot accept. Never let anything define you because then you will restrict yourself to just that. Remember no one has the right to tell you who you are. You can be whoever you want, you have your whole life to decide that and in the process, you are allowed to change as many times as you want. You don’t have to as they say, ‘stick to the status quo.’ You can like two completely opposite things. You can like football and baking at the same time or even playing sports and studying.

Remember you are already whole. If you find someone, they don’t complete you, they match you. So don’t think you need a person to complete you because you don’t, all you need is yourself because, in the end, it will be you fighting for yourself. Finding yourself is not easy, you go on this journey named life which gives many experiences and teaches you quite a few lessons. It doesn’t matter how much you have done, it matters how you chose to live your life. Never stop yourself because the sky is the limit. Explore till your legs fall off, experiment till your brains shut down, work until your hands fall off, and live until you are ready to depart from this world. There is absolutely nothing stopping you.

All I have to say is never change for someone who isn’t you because since day one you have had everything you needed within yourself. If you feel incomplete, adventure till you find yourself. Keep changing and remember, you are allowed to be a masterpiece and a work in progress simultaneously.

Thanks for reading

Xx Mahika